Inspired partly by Humans of New York, our diverse population in the Greater Addo area and South Africa’s present
climate, I decided to informally interview the Chrislin staff on their own
stories. Everyone has a unique story and it occasionally takes only a little
scratching on the surface to realise everyone’s individual, fascinating
journey.
Thembisa Cakuma, 28
Thembisa was born on a local Addo farm
where her parents were working. Elim Primary School (originally started by Mrs
Grace de Kock and recently donated by her son, Dr Peter Bunton, to start a
private school, Hermitage House) was where her education begun. “We were taken
to Happy Valley every Christmas,” recalls Thembisa, “I saw so many new things!”
She remembers a trip to the Port Elizabeth Museum where she was scared of all
these ‘things’ she hadn’t seen before.
She finished school at Samkelwe Senior
Secondary School in Nomathansanqua. During this time her father died in a car
accident so her mother became the main bread winner. Thembisa’s mother made
sure she had everything she needed and worked hard at keeping her at school.
This was very special to Thembisa.
When Thembisa got married, her husband's family gave her the name of 'Zuzu' (short for Zusakhe) which means 'Build up' (meaning she was to build them, as a family, up). She is affectionately known to all by this name.
When Thembisa got married, her husband's family gave her the name of 'Zuzu' (short for Zusakhe) which means 'Build up' (meaning she was to build them, as a family, up). She is affectionately known to all by this name.
What keeps her going? Family. She likes to
see her children “going on the right way, not to struggle like her, to enjoy
the future.” Her wishes for her family is no suffering, love and happiness. She
wants to see them happy.
Looking back to her childhood and growing
up, it was hard for her mother, and difficult with no father. Christmas presents
were a luxury, and rarely received or given. Food was important and her family
had to help contribute “to the pot”. Thembisa’s June/July Winter holidays were
spent finding work to support the family. She had to eventually quit school in
Grade 11 to help mom.
Her first job was at Elephant House, in
Addo, under the tutelage of Smokey. She was chef assistant. This led to her
taking on the role of baker at Lenmore Restaurant. Thembisa now works at
Chrislin African Lodge, also in Addo, as a housekeeper and occasionally helps
the chef in high season. She loves
baking, singing, joking and dancing. Which is obvious when you meet her!
Looking now to the future and her wishes
for this country, she doesn’t want children to suffer. Thembisa helps children
in the location as much as possible. She helps get them to school and rallies
those around her house to play and laugh with.
Her role model is Nelson Mandela.
'Zuzu' with her beautiful African Braiding |
Thembisa, Maria, Sandra and Marie |
Thembisa Cakuma |
Thembisa (fourth from right) |
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